This morning I was scrolling through my facebook page and came across a post by my friend Lourdes Wellhaven. She is the one who built this beautiful site for me. Anyway she was discussing a book by Dale Carnegie title “How to Win Friends and Influence People” – this book was written back in the day. Way back in the day. His method is so simplistic that most people do not understand it. Basicly he teaches that in order to win friends and influence people we should treat them as we wish to be treated. Well, her post and discussion set my creative juices flowing  and it reminded me of a conversation that I had with a sweet friend of mine a while back. So I decided I would podcast my thoughts.

I had read the book years ago when I was struggling with self- confidence – that is the lack thereof- and was trying to figure out how to be successful in my life. Come to find out, I was doing it all wrong. I didn’t look within. A simple concept-  I also did not look at the man in my life that influenced me in many ways, that of my dad. Another simple concept.

I figured out that the change had to come from within. I had to treat myself as I wanted others to treat me. I know you say WHAT? It is true- if we are not good to ourselves how to do we expect others to be.

So with that being said, listen to the podcast. It will show you how to be successful in life in general and in your personal and professional life in particular. IT is okay to be YOU! You be the change! You Have Always Been Kind to ME

Listen to it – yes it is downloadable – share it with others, put it to use in your life. Be kind to yourself, love yourself, like yourself most of all forgive and accept yourself.  Then carry it over to others.